Christian Marriage Counseling

Christian Marriage Counseling for Restoration, Renewal, and Reconnection

Marriage Transformers is designed specifically for couples who feel like they’ve reached the end of the road. Maybe the pain has become too great, the disconnection too deep, or the patterns too overwhelming. Perhaps the word "divorce" has even been mentioned, or is lingering silently in the back of your mind. If this is where you find yourselves, please be encouraged, there is hope.

The truth is, God is still in the business of healing and restoring broken things, including marriages. Even if just one spouse is willing to fight for the relationship, the Holy Spirit has room to move and perform a miracle. Time and again, we’ve witnessed God soften hardened hearts, renew love where it felt lost, and rebuild marriages from what once seemed like ruins.

Luke 1:37 reminds us, “For nothing is impossible with God.” No matter how far gone your marriage feels, if even one of you is willing to stay, pray, and obey, there is a path forward. With biblical truth, wise counsel, and a clear plan, transformation is possible.

When we begin working together, our first goal is to listen. We want to hear your story, understand how you’ve arrived at this moment, and then walk alongside you with compassion and clarity. From there, we’ll begin identifying destructive patterns and replacing them with Christ-centered principles and healthier relational habits. You’ll also complete a Prepare/Enrich Marriage Assessment before our first session. This powerful tool offers a detailed picture of your relationship across key categories, helping us identify both strengths and growth areas. It often provides clarity and insight, giving us a solid foundation to build from.

At Agape Pastoral Services, we have helped couples work through a wide range of struggles:

• Chronic communication breakdowns
• Conflict avoidance or escalation
• Trust issues, including lying, pornography, and infidelity
• Emotional disconnection and spiritual drift
• Unmet expectations and role confusion

No matter your history, there is a way forward—if you’re both willing to lean in and learn.

A key verse we’ll return to often is Romans 12:2, which calls us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. This means learning to think differently, respond differently, and love differently—not by human strength, but through the power of God working in you and your marriage.

Our approach to marriage counseling is not just about fixing problems. It’s about rebuilding your foundation, renewing your covenant, and re-learning how to live, love, and lead together as a unified team. In this process, you’ll be challenged, encouraged, and equipped with tools that foster real and lasting change.

Are you ready to transform your marriage?

If so, we invite you to schedule a complimentary 30-minute Discovery Call with Todd  or Liz. This gives us a chance to connect, talk through your needs, and see if it’s a good fit to work together. It would be an honor for us to come alongside you in this critical season and help you discover the beauty of what God can do when a couple is willing to let Him in.

You don’t have to walk this road alone. Let's begin the journey toward restoration—together.​

*At the Packages Page can select if you would like to work with Todd or Liz.

*Discovery Calls do not guarantee that we will work together. It is at the complete discretion of Agape and the Couple as to whether or not they will work together for any reason.

Method and Tools - We completely believe that God's Word has the power to transform lives and if we are willing to study God's Word and submit to its authority, life change can and will occur. Therefore, for what I do to work, you must be committed to investing the necessary time, effort and energy into studying God's Word and then putting that knowledge into action by what I would call, "lifing" it out! In James 2:14-16 it says, "Faith without works is dead," so we must do something with it for it to matter. One of my favorite all time quotes says it this way, "The outgrowth of all knowledge is obedience, everything else is just useless information." - Watchman Knee.

You see, we can have all the knowledge in the world, but unless we do something with it or "life it out," it's useless information. I mean I could memorize the entire Bible from Genesis through Revelation, but unless I'm practicing and lifing out what it says, it's just useless information. 

Disclosure Notice - I do not practice as a state licensed/clinical psychologist/counselor nor do I have any formal education or degree in counseling. I do not diagnose mental illnesses or disorders, nor do I prescribe treatment for the same.

My qualifications are that I am called by God to minister to couples in need and have been for over 25 years. Over this time I have worked with hundreds of couple while also serving in full time pastoral ministry for 10 of those years. One of my job roles at the church was to counsel people in need so I worked with individuals, couples, and families to help them navigate their individual and unique circumstances. I now use and call on all that real life and the Power of God's Word to bring healing and reconciliation to marriages that need it. I make no guarantees to couples receiving the results that they desire because I believe that great marriages in general are a choice and that belief is based on the passage above.

I do however acknowledge that some people can and do have physiological and psychological needs that only a licensed, educated and trained person can meet. If together we discern that this is the case for you, I will make the recommendation for you to find someone in your local area to see, or if you're local to me, I can help steer you in the right direction based on my experiences with local professionals.