Christian Marriage Coaching

For Couples Who Want to Invest in a Stronger, Healthier, and More Connected Marriage

Christian Marriage Coaching through Agape Pastoral Services is designed for couples who are doing well overall—but want more. More connection. More unity. More intentionality. More joy. You’re not in crisis, and you’re not trying to save a broken marriage. You’re trying to strengthen a good one, and that makes you wise, proactive, and spiritually mature.

Let’s be honest—life is busy. In the midst of careers, parenting, and everything else demanding your attention, even strong marriages can start to drift into maintenance mode. You may find yourselves navigating the daily routine well, but without the depth or spark you once had. Coaching is a great opportunity to pause, reflect, and refocus on the relationship that God has joined together.

Marriage coaching is not counseling. It’s a forward-focused, growth-oriented investment into your most important earthly relationship. As coaches, we come alongside you to listen, encourage, equip, and challenge you with biblical wisdom, personal insight, and practical tools. We believe that when two people are committed to growing together with Christ at the center, powerful transformation can happen.

Hebrews 10:24 says, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” That’s what coaching is all about—building on what’s working and stretching in the areas that could be even better.

When we begin working together, our first step is to get to know your story and hear what brought you to coaching. You'll complete a Prepare/Enrich Marriage Assessment, which gives us a snapshot of your marriage across several key areas, such as communication, roles, spiritual beliefs, intimacy, and finances. This will help guide our focus and shape your personalized coaching path.

As Christian marriage coaches, we help couples strengthen their:

• Communication and connection
• Conflict resolution and problem-solving
• Emotional and physical intimacy
• Financial unity and stewardship
• Shared vision, values, and spiritual alignment

We tailor the coaching process to fit your goals and your season of life. Whether you're preparing for a major life change, entering a new parenting phase, or simply wanting to stay connected and aligned, we’ll help you stay on track and continue building a relationship that reflects God’s design.

Our coaching is deeply rooted in biblical principles and always points you back to your God-given roles, your shared mission, and the call to live out agape love—a selfless, sacrificial love that reflects Christ Himself. We’ll give you tools, resources, and encouragement that help you grow, not just as individuals, but as a unified team.

At Agape Pastoral Services, we believe that marriage is worth investing in—even when it’s already good. In fact, that’s when coaching can be the most powerful: when couples are intentional about strengthening what they have so they can thrive in every season of life.

If that sounds like you, we’d love to connect. Schedule a Free 30-minute Discovery Call with Todd or Liz to see if marriage coaching is the right next step for you.

Let’s build something even better—together, with Christ at the center.

*At the Packages Page can select if you would like to work with Todd or Liz.

*Discovery Calls do not guarantee that we will work together. It is at the complete discretion of Agape and the Couple as to whether or not they will work together for any reason.

Method and Tools - I completely believe that God's Word has the power to transform lives and if we are willing to study God's Word and submit to its authority, life change can and will occur. Therefore, you must be committed to investing the necessary time, effort, and energy into studying God's Word and then putting that knowledge into action by what I would call, "lifing it out!" In James 2:14-16 it says, "Faith without works is dead," so we must do something with it for it to matter. One of my favorite all time quotes says it this way, "The outgrowth of all knowledge is obedience, everything else is just useless information." - Watchman Knee.

You see, we can have all the knowledge in the world, but unless we do something with it or "life it out," it's useless information. I could study the entire Bible, from Genesis through Revelation. But unless I'm practicing and "lifing out" what it says, it's just useless information.

Disclosure Notice - I do not practice as a state licensed/clinical psychologist/counselor nor do I have any formal education or degree in counseling. I do not diagnose mental illnesses or disorders, nor do I prescribe treatment for the same.

My qualifications are that I am called by God to minister to couples in need and have been for over 25 years. Over this time I have worked with hundreds of couples while also serving in full time pastoral ministry for 10 of those years. One of my job roles at the church was to counsel people in need so I worked with individuals, couples, and families to help them navigate their individual and unique circumstances. I now use and call on that real life experience and the Power of God's Word to bring healing and reconciliation to marriages that need it. I make no guarantees to couples receiving the results that they desire because I believe that great marriages in general are a choice and that belief is based on the passage noted above.

I do however acknowledge that some people can and do have physiological and psychological needs that only a licensed, educated and trained person can meet. If together we discern that this is the case for you, I will make the recommendation for you to find someone in your local area to see, or if you're local to me, I can help steer you in the right direction based on my experiences with local professionals.